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Found out this afternoon, that H has a job lead that, if he gets an offer, would most probably allow us to move away from here.<P>I know in my heart that the only way we are going to be able to recover, & rebuild, is if we move out of state.<P>I know this is selfish of me, but I was wondering if you guys could say a little prayer, just a small one, that H is offered that job? <P>There is strength in numbers, & I know He would listen to you as you are all good people.<P>Thank you, & may God bless you all.

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I am praying for you....i also have that hope someday but at this point I dont know if H would want us to go with him [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]...<P>amanda<P>------------------<BR>I will love my husband "Always & Forever"<BR>

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Lord, if this is your will for Sidney and her family then I pray You would make the way clear for a change of "scenery"! This job appears to be a good thing and if it is then let it happen. Give great wisdom and direction for Sidney's H and clear away all obstacles in the path of change. Lord, heal their relationship and make them one again in all ways. <P>Candles are lit!!!!<P>------------------<BR>love is blind<P>

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Hey Sidney,<P>I find it so easy to pray for others - and you can have my first big prayer of the day. It's Monday morning here now, so why don't I start my day off with a prayer - just for you and your H.<P>Don't you think that it's a good sign that he still wants you to go with him - if he gets the job.?<BR>That to me seems to be very very positive. He wants to get away too - otherwise he wouldn't have applied for the job.<P>My H keeps saying he's moving to Brisbane, but isn't doing anything on the job front!!!<BR>He doesn't have a private income - so he needs a job - but itsn't looking for one.<BR>Oh well, another case of "your lips are moving, you must be lying !!!!!"<P>I'm going to sign off now, and say my prayer for you. Hang in there, and hang on. Between you and WilliamJ this morning, everything has been so positive.<P>Good luck, and big hugs for you<P>Jo<P>

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<P>I'm praying to and candle is lit. I know what you mean by leaving the state. My husband put in for a transfer and it never came through. We are doing okay. Have made some very positive steps. So if the job thing doesn't go through don't loose hope. God may just have a different way for you to accomplish the goal of healing your marriage.<BR><P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<P>

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I said a lot of prayers this morning in church for everyone here. But I say another just for you. Since we are asking for each other then maybe our prayers will be answered the way we want them too.<P>I think it is great about the job lead.<BR>Hugs<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

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Avance- thank you so much. I pray that your situation works out, too.<P>Taj- that's a wonderful prayer! Thanks for the candle too. I've got mine lit for ALL of us.<P>Bonnet- I've missed you! I feel especially honored to be your first prayer of the day. Thank you. Yes, I was thinking that very thing-- He called ME to tell me about the possible job, not OW. Unless he called her too, & she's coming along with us?!! Blech! No double blech!! Actually, I don't think anything would surprise me anymore.<P>Sami- thank you for the prayer, candle, & very encouraging words. So glad to hear you're in recovery!<P>

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Diana- Just missed you in my last reply. Thank you! I am lighting a special candle each evening just for you so that you will get that job ASAP!

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Sidney,<P>Prayers are on there way!! <BR>I think it is wonderful about the job and that he wants his family to go w/ him. This is wonderful.<BR>The candle is burning- as always.<P>May God guide your steps, give you peace and help restore your marriage.<P>God Bless,<P>Cheryl

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My candles are lit. One for me and one for the rest of us.<P>Yoou are always in my prayers.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

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We'll be moving,too, but not for about 7 months. I can't wait. I wish it was tomorrow!

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Ceecee- thanks for your prayers. We've had so much disappointment concerning his job situation. I'm so hoping something will finally go his way.<P>Bill- thank you. I just love what we all are doing with the candles this holiday season. It is such an uplifting & hopeful thing to do.<P>Barrie- good luck with your move. I'm like you, I can't wait. Although, right now nothing is for certain.

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I have my candle lit and am praying for God's will to work through this job situation for you.<BR><P>------------------<BR>Lor<BR>"Do not get tired of doing what is right, for after awhile you will reap a harvest of blessings if you do not get discouraged and give up. (Gal 6:9)<P><BR>

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Lori- thank you so much. Where there is a will, there is a way!


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