You can read my sad story on the post "What do I say?"<p>My husband left the country with the other woman on Jan. 4. I saw him last on Jan 1st. Tonight he made the first contact after changing his phone number and closing his e-mails. I had sent him and e- mail that just said "I love You". He wrote back tonight<p>"I love you and miss you too. i really want to talk to you but I really don't know what to say besides I'm sorry for everything I've put you through. I do think about you every single day.
Love,
E"<p>I sent him an e-mail of the song and words to "The Space Between" by Dave Matthews. I wrote<p>"Thank you. It made me so happy to hear from you. I understand. I love you. The door is wide open. Please call.
All my Love Always and Forever,
S"<p>
Did I Love Bust? My palms are sweating I am so excited and nervous. Where do I take it from here? I found his new e-mail and he showed up on line on my buddy list but i didn't IM him because he told his family he is with OW 24/7. What should I do. Did he throw me a line? Is there hope? Please help Me!!!!
Forgiver

Forgiver,
Glad that you post something again. Why do you think it is an LB ?. You just states your love for H. You try to make the communication line open again, which is good. Only so much you do plan A'ng long distance.<p>Approach it with care, you never know who is typing behind the keyboard, it might be OW. Also now your 'coater is heading up ward, it is a matter of time it will drop. Don't read too much into it. Plan up what do you want to say if H call. Basically do not be clingy about A or talk about it unless H brought it up. Tell him in the line that you won't take his behavior but you love him so that in case H wants to work on M the door is open. (fogesse talk) However there is no guarantee that H will find you here. If H starts talk about issue(s) in M, appologize and tell H it won't happen since you have learn MB [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] and learn to change it. If H start talk about excuses to justify his A, you tell H that you different point of view and "we could agree to disagree" (another fogesse line) and do not butt head with H ... and change the subject.<p>Good work. Next email leave it a bit longer to reply, leave it half a day before answering ... hold it abit and make an excuse of "the new activities-plan A" hold you for a while. [img]images/icons/grin.gif" border="0[/img] Keep the time stamp of when H send and when H reply email and compare it w/ yours. Be a Venusian !!!.