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My spouse & I have just recently seperated. I just found out he has feelings for another women. He says he has not commited infidelity & never will. He says he loves me but he is not in love with me. What can I do to prevent infidelity & rekindle the love he has for me. Just keep in mind we are not living the same household. We continue to talk about once a week. We continue to have sexual contact. I know he still cares.
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How long have you been married? Do you have any children? Can you ensure that your H has no contact with the OW? Where did he meet her? No contact is necessary in order to work things out between the two of you...
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needadvise,<p>Welcome to MB. Please learn as much as you can about MB. There are link to the info. in my sigature below. Pay attention on EN, LB, LB$, and plan A/B. You can not make H change right now, all you could do is plan A, no LB and wait until A dies. Do plan A to address the issues that you have with H for some time then follow the Venusina Lady's approach.<p>Keep posting for updates and questions.<p>[ January 27, 2002: Message edited by: redhat ]</p>
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We have been married 20 years, have 2 children. He met the other woman through work. He does not work with her directly. He has his own business, she works for one of the companies he buys materials from. I don't have any proof he hasn't had any relations with her except his word. I honestly think he telling me the truth.
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needadvise,<p>Misstypo above reply ... you can not change your H right now ... I will edit it later.<p>Again learn about plan A and start from fillin LBQ as if your H would and also ENQ.<p>Word of warning, don't be surprise if H has PA too, falling "in love" w/ OW is infidelity.<p>Good luck.

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