Hi Again Everyone,<P>As I've written in my previous post, this was a good weekend all in all.<P>Tonight when I called R to say good niught to Abbey, she told me she talked to my mom. They wre best friends before all this. Mom asked about x-mas and stuff nothing about OB of course. According to mom it was very emotional, they realy miss one another.<BR>Robin and I got on the topic of x-mas day. She said she wasn't going to stay for dinner. She is going to spend the night x-mas eve. I asked her what she was going to do x-mas day, she told me she was going to d...heads grandparents. It was all I could do to hold my tongue. Such a great weekend then this. Ouch, it hurt right to the core. I know I should expect things to heat up. It still hurts. My folks will be here the week of x-mas. They live in Ca.<BR>They asked what they could do about the situation. I told them to do what I'm doing. Show her that they still love her, and won't harbor any resentments. She's realy affraid of my dad. They were real close. He can be known as the ICEMAN if he wants to. He's an ex-marine veterine, construction super-intendant with the thousand yard stare. What she doesn't realise is his feelings for her haven't changed much. He still loves her and wants to get back to what was.<BR>I hope doo-lolly, does some major LBing in the next ten days. Is that something I should pray for? I wonder if God would answer that one? The reality is he won't, and she won't get her head out of her...<BR>Medic, how's your invention coming along?<P>So for now I'll keep doing what I'm doing; NO LOVEBUSTERS no matter what.<P>I'll keep waiting to see what God has in store next.<P>I sure do hope cheeseball boy does some serious lovebusting.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

I couldn't had managed it.<P>Alex

it was all I could do to remember my goal is to win her back. <P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

William J,<BR> I think OB's Grandparents will think he brought one of his friend's MOTHERS!!<BR> How could they possibly go along with this? Will OB's parents nbe there too?<P> Get this. You know my W wouldn't go to Las Vegas with me to see our D (really her's from a previous marriage) BUT she SANG at OM's son's wedding this weekend!!!!!!!!<P> OB's BOUND to start LBing soon. Don't you remember what it was like to be 17?????? GOOD LUCK AND PRAYERS. FRANK<BR>

Frank,<P>I honestly don't think Ob family will give a s..t. They are deliverance type of red-necks. Hell they probably think he scored big. They are probably his biggest cheering squad. They sucked as parents and family and they know it, here's someone to take over for them, MY W. These people could give a flying f... about me and my daughter. I know for a fact they(his family) are late stage alcoholics, to the point of deriliction. They have no concept of what family realy is. I bet when s...head fist told them he met someone(before actual affair) they told him ways to get her from me. I know for a FACT his whole goal from the time he met Robin was to GET her(his words).<BR>And to think I was becoming friends with this a..h..e. As you can tell I need to get out some of this anger.<P>Do you wanna know whats realy obsurd?<BR>My W's boyfriend is younger than her sixteen year old sister.<P>I can't wait until he has his heart ripped out when she come to her sences.<P>Like I said before I don't fee sorry for his upcoming misery, F him. He sucks!!!!<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

I kinda lost my religion for a minute.<P>I've been waiting for that anger to erupt.<P>I'm just glad I have a plce to do it.<P>Thanks,<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

WillaimJ,<P>Doesn't it feel GREAT to get rid of all that anger?????? Just has to happen sometimes or you would explode. It's OK, because this is a safe place to get rid of it.<P>Now, let it go because you don't need it. No, you can't change what she is going to do. Time is your friend and your worst enemy at the same time. In time, you know the relationship with rotten tooth baby boy will fall to pieces, but that also means you gotta wait some more and yes, that truly does SUX!<P>Rant and rave just a bit more and then go to sleep....you need your rest for tomorrow's PlanAing.<P>Good night...<P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

WilliamJ,<BR> Well you may be right about OB's family but if what you say is true, won't your W be really turned off by the whole thing? <P> I mean, she MUST have SOME idea of what a future with this kid will be like. Maybe actually SEEING the Christmas of the future and thinking of Christmas "past" will JAR her into reality? You never know, this could work FOR you HUH? FRANK<P><BR> Have yourself a OB's little Christmas. Watch the whole family puke, from now on your troubles will be.... <BR>

Another brilliant point, Frank.<P>Yes you are right she would be turned off by the red-neck drunken x-mas.<BR><P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

Hi William J,<BR> <BR> I know you are in pain but I hope you don't mind that I had a good laugh at the description of the OB's family...".redneck deliverance"...still laughing....I can't even imagine if you and Medic ever got together!! Lu

WilliamJ -- You know I sympathize with your position, but like Lu, I hope you don't take offense of my laugh about the "rednecks". Heck, you never know, they might really be upset with OB because the person he has picked out is not of any "blood" relation(sorry, your "deliverance" reference stirred that one).<P>Hang tough, this is definitely the textbook "fantasy". She will eventually awaken...