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Re: It's been 2 weeks for me...
#411388 03/11/02 08:17 AM
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Ok, I guess I obviously don't get this Plan A thing. I sent for Dr. Harley's books 3 weeks ago but haven't received them.<p>In Plan A, I'm just supposed to act like nothing's happened and go about my life while WH has moved out and lives footloose & fancy-free? He works all night with OW then spends all day with her, out of touch with the rest of the world & his family. Friday, my daughter got sick at school, and I knew he was off, so I called everywhere I could think of to get him to pick her up but couldn't find him. So, I had to leave work to get her myself.<p>I'm trying to muster up the courage to go out and enjoy myself, but I spend many evenings crying my eyes out.<p>Help!<p>camp 83
Re: It's been 2 weeks for me...
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Campy,
Sorry I havent checked on you last couple days.
You did real good when he was trying to keep you both and you said "no".
You have plan A all wrong. Its a plan for two people working on marriage.
I just read a book called LOve must be tough, a lot of people her like it. It talks about setting boundaries. I just read one also called How to divorce proof your marriage. She talks about the way we react to our partner is like a dance. When you change the step it is uncomfortable and he will complain, but if you keep at it He must change the dance. It would be easier to fall into the "old dance" but dont do it.
Wish I had words of wisdom for you. You are not alone.
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