Final update before moving to a new thread (Divorcing)..<p>Well I filed last Friday. My Lawyer is drafting a financial affidavit and planning to serve her shortly after. She still won't admit that she had an affair. The closest she came was to admit that it was wrong of her to continue the communication with OM while we were married. Even though all she admits they talked about was 'every day stuff'. Yeah right!<p>Her sister (the same one where all the letters from OM to my wife were mailed to) called me the other night on my cell phone and asked me if I could talk, I said sure. She started saying that my wife would never cheat on me and that she (my wife's sister) knew that the guy was still in contact with my wife.. She admitted that the letters were being sent to her home but she never read them. I told her that I have all the proof I needed and that there was absolutely no doubt in my mind that my wife, her sister, was unfaithful. I told her once everything was out in the open she would see what I'm talking about. She got the point.
We ended the conversation like friends, I told her that I didn't have any resentment towards her for putting up with my wife's behavior, as it was my wife's decision 100%. She promised to keep in touch after the dust settles and everybody starts living their respective lives.<p> Right now I'm going to put our house up for sale. I thought about kicking her out but then I thought about our son, besides I don't anything to do with that house, it will be forever soiled. I just want out! hopefully the D will not drag on, she has agreed to: spliting custody 50/50, I told her to keep all the furniture (like I said everything is soiled, emotionally anyway) all I want is the computer and the clothes on my back.<p>I'm going back to school starting Mar 26th, trying to get my life back in order, suddenly I realize there is more to life than trying to get the woman you love to love you back. It's weired. I can honestly say that I'm most happy when I'm with my son and not in the same house/space with her. I dread going home now. My son seems to be holding up well, I know he's only 3yrs old but I worry that this could have a profound impact on him later on in life.<p>Anyway thanks to all who have replied and to those that read and prayed for me. My heartfelt thanks.<p>* Married for 3 yrs
*Together for 6 yrs
* Son 3 yrs old
*D-day February 16th 2002
*Filed for divorce March 8th<p>[ March 11, 2002: Message edited by: martinan ]</p>
