This my second marriage and we have 4 teenaged girls between us (each have 2). I think my husband is addicted to internet porn and is constantly lying to me about its use. I have started a snoop-fest. . . put spector software on pc and going through burned CD's and diskettes. I found a diskette and a jpg file of my 18 year old daughter who happens to be an international model. I found it in a pouch of his laptop case that he uses for work. This is setting warning bells off in my head. Why would he have this pic on a diskette - to show the guys at work his attractive stepdaughter? Maybe other reasons that I don't want to imagine. He does not have pics of my other daughter on diskettes or of his own daughters for that matter. He also has a modelling poster of her in his office as well as pics of me and the other girls. This daughter is quite assertive and I can't see her allowing him to victimize her so I doubt he has actually harmed her. Should I take it up with him or consider it harmless. He has 2 pics and her boyfriend is in the pic too. I am waiting to see what turns up from pc with the spector software recordings. . . so far only know about the porn thing. Please help!

Hi, <p>Sounds like you are on the right track but the emotional upset is still to come. Can you arrange to speak to Steve or Jennifer to get some ideas on how to proceed? You want to know your options. <p>It may be a harmless thing but when one delves in porn, you never know the outcome. I say this not to scare you but to say that I agree with your caution. <p>Without revealing anything a cautious mom will reinforce the need for her children to protect themselves from all who may try to harm them. You can do this. Then watch their individual reaction. Reassure them that you are there to listen to them should they need to speak with you. <p>JMHO,
L.