Hello everyone:<p>I don't know now what my husband really wants. Whether he is so in love with that other woman that his attitude to a marriage changed but not for forever or he really means what he is saying and our marriage will be this way always.
Please tell me what do you think.
Here is what he is telling me.<p>2 posts ago I told you that the woman whom my husband fall in love with got a cancer recently.
I guess this means that my Plan A might be not too long.
My husband is very sad, but hopes to go see her in a hospital sometime.
I am not too sad now but worry about our future.
My husband says that he prefer to have an "open marriage". He even brought me a book to read about "open marriges". He would like me to be his wife but also to have a lover (not only for sex but also for emotional needs).
I don't know will he change his mind when he will not have that woman. But I definitely cann't live in a "open marriage". And I told him about it. He looks like understands my position but I feel that he hopes for another.
I don't think a person ever can satisfy all the needs of his spouse. So, it seems to me that he might be always looking for someone else.
I want to be wrong, but I need to be prepared to a life without husband I guess.
Do you think that person can be so in love that he would say such things?