This forum has been very helpful to me but I have been thinking it would be great if there was a support group (something like AA) that people going through this could attend. I went on the infidelity network but there isn't anything even close to my area, and in order for me to send a request to start one up - the membership is $99/month. Forget that. Does anyone have suggestions?

Your best bet would be to start with your church. They usually have groups for this sort of stuff.<p>Good luck.

Hi StrongerThanYesterday,<p> Try your church to see if they have a group. I would just go to my priest one on one but he creeped me out. He said "Here i have to take a vow of celibacy and your husband does not know how good he has it with such an intelligent, forgiving, beautiful wife! That jsut burns me up! Look what he gets to come home to and I don't get any!" Needless to say that was the last time i ppuored my soul out to my priest.<p> If you go to counseling your therapist may have a group or may help you set up one. My therapist only had a group of women going through divorce. He said they were very bitter and might ot take too well to a newcomer. I told him i was not ready to go there and that was the last grooup i wanted to join.!<p> I think Marriage Builders should have a dating page or matchmaker page for those of us who don't make it with our WS. I think if my M does not last I will definately want to be with someone who believes in MB principals and if they went through the same experiencee as me (a BS) we would knock each other out meeting each others needs. We would need a back up Love Bank with all the deposits being made. I think they should set it up.