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WS Help?
#412381 04/03/02 04:26 PM
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I want to first state that I am just as Angry, Hurt, confused, Sad and all the other feelings that go along with a WS.<p>However, no matter how badly I want to make her feel like crap, pay for what she did and rub it in her face, that wont help save our marriage.<p>Although some WS's are,, how should I put this Arrogant Asses with no real signs of Remorse, I have seen several Posts by others who are trying to Save their relationships.<p>Where can my WS turn to to understand the phase's she is going to go through? How will withdrawal affect her and me and what things are normal to feel?<p>I think by both her AND I being able to know what each other will be feeling may be beneficial to both parties. NOT just one side.<p>Any suggestions?
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#412382 04/03/02 05:25 PM
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Read SKM's Chronicle on my sig. ... WS on recovery ... you might even want to print it out for your WS.<p>Good luck -RH-
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#412383 04/03/02 07:36 PM
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Even tho i am the WS, i came here first. I found this because i so despretely wanted OUT of my A. I had no idea why i done what i had done, i wanted to figure out a quick solution to the havock i created with an A. I bought books....Torn ASunder by dave carder, Surviving an Affair, Dr. Harley, i read and read on the internet....google.com and put in extramarital affairs adn got tons of information. I did find a lot of good people and information here also if you dont mind that she is here. There are lots of WS here to help her out.<p>good lukc,
mercy

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