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Re: Positive Statements Made by Betrayers
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<BR> "I didn't know I still loved you and mostly you still loved me"<BR> <BR>(about a friend's W who left) "I can't believe she's doing this!! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] Tell her to stop being STUPID like me"<P>"I can't imagine being away from you when our grandson is born"<P><P>------------------<BR>desperate<BR>"If yesterday didn't stop today, Why should TODAY stop tomorrow??" <BR>"Wisdom is why!!"<P>
Re: Positive Statements Made by Betrayers
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After about six months into recovery H said to me.....<BR>"How could I ever have thought about leavin you? YOu are the most wonderful person in the world."<P>Just few day ago, when I was feeling down...and asked him if we were OK he said...<BR>"We are much stronger than that. Our love is not fragile. We will have ups and downs, we mst ride the waves, nd look at the big picture. We are good." [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>------------------<BR>You will be stronger because of this.<P>
Re: Positive Statements Made by Betrayers
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Once, looking across the room at me while I was reading....H said, " I can't understand how I could have lost sight of you?"<P>Another time, soon after discovery when there were still some issues left to be settled and lots of revelations to be made, I said, "I am worried that I am making you give up the love of your life and that you will always resent me." His response, "I almost gave up the love of my life when I started with her."<P>I am still waiting for more from him. He says he loves me often, but not much more than that. Lots of hugging and compliments when he sees me trying to meet his needs for "domestic tranquility" ( a task which really goes against my grain, I hate housework! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com] ).<P>
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One day about a month he hurt my feelings. I don't remember how now. <P>He said to me...<BR><B>"I don't want to hurt you. You are too precious."</B><P>The next day I told him how much it meant to me that he said that and that I was holding on to it. He said...<BR><B>"You are precious!"</B><P>Today he said...<BR><B>"You know I love you."</B><P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<BR>
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