Here are my New Millenium Resolutions:<P>1. Don't be afraid to try.<BR>2. Don't be afraid to fail.<BR>3. Don't be afraid to succeed.<P><BR>1. Learn to learn.<BR>2. Learn to teach.<P>1. Learn to laugh.<BR>2. Learn to cry.<BR>3. Learn to accept either as the way things must be for now.<P>1. Learn to take action.<BR>2. Learn to wait.<BR>3. Learn to let someone else act the way they need to.<P>1. Learn to let go.<BR>2. Learn to hold on.<BR>3. Learn to let my H let go.<BR>4. Learn to let my H hold on.<P>1. Learn to cry without dispair.<BR>2. Learn to cry for joy.<BR>3. Learn to let others cry for whatever reason they need to.<P>1. Learn to remember.<BR>2. Learn to forget.<P>1. Learn to look forward.<BR>2. Learn to be aware of what is behind and let it stay there.<P>1. Let my children be children.<BR>2. Let my children grow up.<P>1. Let me do what I can.<BR>2. Let me leave what I can't.<BR>3. Let me let someone else take up the slack.<BR>4. Let me continue to feel that I can take care of myself.<BR>5. Let me let someone take care of me.<BR>6. Make sure I keep the someone I have to take care of.<P>Will I succeed? <P>I will as long as I am not held to all of these at once.<P>One step at a time. A lifetime to practice. I lifetime to start over and try again when I fail.<P>A lifetime to believe these things are believeable.

I just want to be a better husband, father, and son.<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

Boo,<P>Those sound like the best and most workable resolutions I have ever heard. Wish my thinking were as clear as your seems to be! <P>My Resolutions:<P>1) Be the best wife I can be to my husband<BR>2) Take the best care possible of myself during my pregnancy<BR>3) Clean my house up more (ugh!)<BR>4) Procrastinate less<BR>5) Improve my self esteem <BR>6) Grow up more emotionally<BR>7) Have a better attitude at work (even towards the stupid drunk repeat offenders who roll into the ER where I work) (OOPS! see I need work on that one)<P>All the rest Ive already done because of my unborn child (quit smoking, drinking, start eating healthier)<P>But of course, the unspoken, most important one - to never stray again from my husband's side.<P>Khyra<BR>

I have one more to add to mine.<P>I resolve to decide whether or not to move on with my marriage.<P>I have never decided to leave, but I have also never decided to stay. <P>It is time to make that decision. I guess I should feel lucky that this decision is solely up to my. My H has already decided to stay.<P>I'm not providing any deadline on this resolution, I have 100 years .

I usually make 2 large resolutions. One is a "major" resolution, and one is what I call my "irrelevant resolution" so that if I don't make the main one, I at least have one measure of success to look back upon. <P>Last year, my two resolutions were to simplify my life, and to eat a jalapeno whole. I made them both. (He complicated it a little, but I still managed to simplify). This next year, I think my main resolution will be to stop using course speech (I swear like a sailor sometimes) and yelling, and my irrelevant resolution will be to balance a stick on the end of my nose.