Here it goes...<p>Male
Age 33
Betrayed
Married for 8 years
Known each other for 9
10 months since discovery
9 months separated
Both an emotional and physical affair
She has had two affairs, one before this, I found out the first one was over during the second affair.
I don't know if I am in plan A for sure.
Living separate for 9 months with OM
OP is divorced
OP is coworker and internet before that
Separation has been filed by both, but she didn't pursue it. I haven't decided to go through.
Just came across this site. Trying to regain trust, intimacy, plan A.
0 months on forum<p>3 children (ages 2 yr old girl, 4 yr old boy w/down syndrome, 8 yr old son.
I have had physical custody since separation.
WS is pregnant and due 08-25-2002, don't know who father is. It could be bs or Om.
Tried counseling before separation and counselor told us as long as affair is continuing she couldn't do anything.
No medication
WS has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and depression. She pretty much denies it.
She claims she can't be intimate with me, not sex, but kissing. She doesn't know why.
She says she loves me, but not in that way anymore.
I am committed to getting us all back together again and I need a lot of help and advice.

Hi, <p>Welcome to MB. You certainly have a lot on your plate right now and your situation is similar to several here. <p>Please read the basic concepts section under the MB logo located at the top of this page. <p>Let's keep your post to the top, you can add comments when you can or want (even vents) and others will respond. Do you already have a counselor? <p>take care,
L.

check your thread in GQII and move your profile here<p>[ June 19, 2002: Message edited by: redhat ]</p>