I would like to thanks everyone who replied to my desperates cry for help a few days ago.I managed to pull myself up and actually think with my head and not my heart.Sometimes it helps writing stuff down.I had a few talks to her,she wouldn't back off an inch,so I decided to bite the bullet and get a divorce.It's better for me and for the kids.
At least now I know where I have to go,she was alreay decided and just playing me for a safety net.
Again..thanks everybody.