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I was 7 years married and with two daughters. My husband is not lazy but is contented on what we have while I'm an ambitious person. I like to give the best to my family that made me occupied and lost my time for him. He met again her ex-GF whom I know he loves so much before marrying me. Now, he left us for that woman and saying that he realized that he had never loved me in those seven years. The woman is also married with 3 kids and left his family for my husband. I wanted to have my husband back. We had tried to separate them but both resisted. Now they are living in a place where I don't know. The only place I can contact my husband is through his work. Is it still sensible for me to make an effort to separate them or just wait for them to end their relationship?
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Joined: Jan 2001
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Allyn,
Welcome to MB. Have you read any of the info here under the concepts section at the top of this page? Your questions are important and the method you choose to help yourself, your family and even your H at this time is will impact your future. So please read the info up there and come back and post to us. Also if you can get with an MB or IC or even a counseling session by phone with Steve or Jennifer here at MB it would help you a lot. I know it helped me.
Come back and post. Just a word of advice. You can't FIX your H now. So don't waste the effort to even try. There are a lot of other areas you can work with for the momment. So concentrate on those. I have found it helpful to pray for a clear mind and a calm heart.
NOTE: The A is stupid.
take care,
L.
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