I have been married for only 3 months. I married the man I had been dating for the past 3 years. During the 1st year of our relationship I discovered that he had cheated on me with his ex-wife. I left him. After several weeks/monhs of him calling- telling me how much he loved me that he didn't want to lose me BLAH BLAH BLAH- I resolved to try again. Shortly into this reconciliation a woman by the name of Sabrina began calling him quite frequently. I questioned him about it and he told me that she simply was someone who did some part time work for him. I was STUPID enough to have believed him.
FAST FORWARD to 2 years later... I think we've been having this wonderful relationship... we get married 3 months ago. Last week a mutal friend comments that she thinks that he & I are a great couple and that she is so happy that I 've been able to get past his indicretions with his ex AND this other person. I assured her that she was wrong about her and the matter was dropped- UNTIL last nite when I was using his cell phone and her name flashes across the screen- she's calling. I confronted him- told him that I had come to know about his having been with her after we got back together and asked him why on earth she was still calling him- at which time he confesses to the cheating over 1 1/2 yars ago and then tells me that he ended it shortly thereafter and that now they have a strictly professional relationship. OH YES... now she's working for him.

It gets better... I found out that he had some kind of tryst with this woman while he was married to his last wife.

My head is spinning, there have been so many lies I don't know what is real anymore

Please read my post under General Questions.

What are you going to do?