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I just looked through my wife's cell phone records the other day and found out she called her OM several times in July.
We specifically had an agreement that she would tell me if she ever talked to him again and she did not tell me this.
Don't know what to do now.
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A thought to ponder. There once was an old man that took pity on a rattle snake that he found near death due to the cold. This snake spoke to the man in the hopes that the man would pick him up and place him in the mans shirt so that the snake could be warm and safe. The snake promised he would not bite the man and the man did as the snake wanted. Latter that day, the snake bit the man. The man was very upset, he screamed at the snake"YOU LIED TO ME". The snake replyed, "you knew what I was when you picked me up". I only did what was in my nature.
If the past nature of our relationships included lying, it is not uncommon for there to be more lies even as we try to preserve the relationship. With work we can overcome our nature...It is usually a slow process.
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good story... how true
I struggle with the same issue. It's groundhog day all over, you know. WW promises to stop contact, to try her best, only to open a new email account next day. the merry-go-round already happened 4 times or so. now, I've lost them, but judging on past behaviour: I just dont beleive her anymore and assume the worst until proven otherwise
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