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#417438 09/11/02 03:54 PM
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My husband had an affair 5 years ago ( it was a one night thing). We went on from there and everything was fine. Not long ago we went out with some friends and well things went very wrong. To make a long story short the wife of the other couple had convinced my husband that we were supposed to "swap partners" and without even asking me if there was any truth to this he "did his part". I was completly outraged when I found out. I had no idea these people were like this. Come to find out there marriage was all but over and she was trying to get back at her husband and used mine to do it. My point in all of this is that I feel that he didn't learn anything from the first time due to the fact that he didn't say NO. I know that I would never do anything to hurt him and I just don't know what to do or where to go at this point. Someone please give me some advice. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

#417439 09/12/02 12:30 AM
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Swapping without permission? Seems like a new excuse but produces the same ol pain.

I am sorry you are here in this situation. Where is your H now? Is he sorry? If yes, how is he showing it and are you both getting help?

L.


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