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Re: Is Internet Porn Cheating?
#417981 10/13/02 12:43 AM
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</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">We have talked about it countless times over the last few weeks and I explained how I felt about it, without being judgmental or mean. He said he understood and wouldn't do it again. I think that is a good sign. He also told me that from now on, I was welcome to go with him to breakfast or where ever he wanted to go, when he's not working. Maybe this crap was all in my head. What do you think? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">No that crap was not in your head, that crap was in the lack of respectful communication between you two and in his hiding his viewing of porn from you.

If you haven't read the Harley book 'Love Busters: overcoming habits that destroy romantic love' I urge you to do so. It shows how different types of negative behaviors towards our loved one, damages the relationship.

Make_This_Work you've got a great positive attitude that will serve you well in your M.

Good luck and God bless.
Re: Is Internet Porn Cheating?
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Thanks to both of you. Yes, Leslie. It does makes a lot of sense to differ between because of, and for. I understand totally. I am also happy to hear that your H has found other ways to calm himself and has stopped viewing the porn. Thanks for the encouragment, coffee! Need a little of that sometimes, things start to torture my mind so bad that I obsess about it. THANK YOU!
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Re: Is Internet Porn Cheating?
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It is definitely a signal of a problem. And many people start with 'just looking' and end up in chat rooms, and have physical affairs with people they meet on line. It's not a "little" issue. If you look at how many rapists have reported starting out by looking at porn and how it escalates, you wouldn't take it so lightly.

It is very disrespectful. Especially when these men have wives who are willing to satisfy them in bed. It's also selfish and 'the easy way out' with no intimacy involved.
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