Welcome to the
Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum
This is a community where people come in search of marriage related support, answers, or encouragement. Also, information about the Marriage Builders principles can be found in the books available for sale in the Marriage Builders® Bookstore.
If you would like to join our guidance forum, please read the Announcement Forum for instructions, rules, & guidelines.
The members of this community are peers and not professionals. Professional coaching is available by clicking on the link titled Coaching Center at the top of this page.
We trust that you will find the Marriage Builders® Discussion Forum to be a helpful resource for you. We look forward to your participation.
Once you have reviewed all the FAQ, tech support and announcement information, if you still have problems that are not addressed, please e-mail the administrators at
mbrestored@gmail.com
|
|
|
|
Joined: Oct 2002
Posts: 10
Junior Member
|
|
Junior Member
Joined: Oct 2002
Posts: 10 |
I've been separated from my wife for awhile now and I just found out last week that she was having an A for the last two months. Needless to say, this has been extremely difficult for me to deal with. It's been a week and while it's getting better, it's just always THERE. So many images run through my mind and I can't remember a time when I've cried as much. I really can't even concentrate on my tasks at work. She's tried to be supportive, she's feels really bad about it and she's hoping that there's a possibility we can heal & move on. I don't feel I can do that though. It has hurt so much. It's been so devastating. All I think about is them, together. What can I do to keep myself together a week later?
|
|
|
|
|
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 1,516
Member
|
|
Member
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 1,516 |
Have you seen a doctor? Most of us find that some anti-depression meds are needed to help us focus on what we need to do for ourselves.
Since you didn't say how long you've been separated or exactly what you or your W would like to have happen in the future, I won't try to offer any advice.
Good luck with whatever you decide. May God grant you peace.
|
|
|
|
0 members (),
449
guests, and
428
robots. |
|
Key:
Admin,
Global Mod,
Mod
|
|
|
Forums67
Topics133,629
Posts2,323,532
Members72,080
| |
Most Online8,273
Aug 17th, 2025
|
|
|
|
|
|
