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Joined: Oct 2002
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Found out my wife of 20 years had an sexual relationship with a Doctor.
My emotions seem to be on a rollercoaster. I am mad at both of them.sad, then I want out of the marriage,then I want to try to make it work.
How do I steady my emotions
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Joined: Aug 2000
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There is a lot of great information and people on this site. If it was her doctor she was seeing I would report him to the state medical board and contact his wife. I wish you luck.
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Joined: Jan 2002
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The emotions you are feeling are perfectly normal. You're likely to experience emotions that you've never felt before. This is NOT the time to make a decision that will effect the rest of your life. Take some time to reflect on what YOU need. Most of us BS need some medication to help control our emotions during these first several months. They don't take away what you are feeling, but they do make it easier to control. I would offer the advice to get into individual counseling for yourself so that you can have someone to talk to without worry about where the information will be spread. THEN...if you and your W feel that your marriage is worth saving, seek a really good marriage counselor that the BOTH of you feel safe and comfortable with.
Report your W's doctor...he's breaking the law.
Good Luck!
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