M. I'm rereading the D papers and all the material stuff is covered. You get the couch, I get the truck. I'll keep the cards from the wedding, you get the umbrella. All very reasonable and fair. I've read it, but I can't find anything about our plans/dreams for a life together?<BR> <BR> We really do make a team M. Your spontaneous and full of life and taught me alot about having fun! You are concerned with the finished product, I get alot of things started and have to work at finishing them. Your loving and sensitive, caring and supportive. I really love those things in you. I know I did'nt tell you enough how much these things mattered. I took for granted you knew.<BR> You had a need to be told again and again how much I appreciated all the little things you did. You needed to know I was plugged in to OUR LIVES FIRST before children, friends, work, the house. You wanted me to be a good father to L, to earn her respect and love. You needed to be reminded how wonderfull I think you are and how fortunate I am that you picked me to be your H. when there were guys without any of the obligations I have. Most of all you needed to hear how PROUD I am OF YOU and how much I cherish and adore you. <BR> M. honey, I realize what a WONDERFULL person I married. I DO know what I want, I DO get what should have been my most important consideration, letting you know just how much you mean to me. <BR> Sweetheart YOU are all I ever wanted. I REALLY DO W.T.G.Y.W.O. see song of solomon 4:1-16 YOU are the most beautifull rose in the garden.<BR> I was WRONG <BR> <BR>Where forgiveness is, there can be found the beginnings of new love. <BR>