My husband has some friends that are girls...which I have no problem with. But until a few months ago we had been living in 2 diff states until I could join him. A couple weeks ago one of his friends called me and thinking we had just gotten married told me she was having sex with my husband about a year ago (she didn't come right out and say it...was a conversation). I asked my husband and he admited to it. At the time we were engaged to be married a second time (long story) so he says since we weren't married he wasn't cheating, I love him and want to be with him but I'm not sure if I can handle the unfaithfulness, add to that the fact he won't even answer my questions about it (he says "it's over forget it"). I'm not sure how I can get over it. Do you all have any ideas?

DAGarvie,

Welcometo MB and sorry you have to come here this way but many of us does and many of us survive and have a better M than before D-day.

Please read HNHN & SAA also read all about MB: ENs, LB, LB$, plan A/B, etc. Right now you are confuse but please get busy to learn and post here for more support. If you could afford it please get MB conseling. Read as much as you can starting from basic concept then General welcome and all its link. Get medication if you need it.

Q4U. Does your H want to work on M ?, does he show remorse and willing to ammends you ?. Do you think A is still continue ?. What purpose OW calls you about this ? breaking you up ?. Does your H promise you anything ?. How is he behavin lately ? Also put more detail on your profile about your M.

Just to assure you, MB could help you to rebuild your M and a promise of fullfiling M if both of you are willing to do it.-RH-

<small>[ November 02, 2002, 09:28 AM: Message edited by: redhat ]</small>