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I just don't understand why people have affairs. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> (I don't expect an answer...just asking figuratively, and as a sort-of vent!)
Am I too moral?? Am I too naive?? If my ENs were not being met, and I was contemplating an affair, I'd like to think that I would wait until I was divorced or at least separated, to be with someone else.
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SC...more than half the people who actually have affairs don't know why either. Those of us who can't imagine having an affair when there are so many other options...definitely can't find an answer that is satisfactory. (Even when our WS tries their best to give us one.)
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IMNSHO Ignorance of the dangers of sharing intimate details of the M with a supportive member of the opposite sex, coupled with loneliness and low self esteem, seems to be a most common recipe for the start of an A.
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