Male
48 SW 48
Betrayed by SW
30 years total 1st time 10 years 2nd time 20years.
3 years dated in High School
12 months since discovery of affair(s)
don't know how long it's been going on years?
Wife has history of bipolar disorder
5 or 6 affairs
No plan to reconcile
Seperated 10 months
OP married, divorced, seperated?
Divorce requested by SW
have been visiting MB for 4 months
Grown children 2 grandchildren
SW has Bipolar condition & has been hosp for it out of hosp now.
SW 10 suicide attempts since 1991.
Sold house, split the profit. Distributed the furniture, cars etc. SW spent all of her money already, much on drugs and drug using friends, and gave her car to hitchiker. (Still owe 8k on it).
I'm living with our grown children and 2 grandaughters paying the rent for them. They are struggling financially. Their mothers actions & illness is taking it's toll on them emotionally.

PraiznJesus1, you have been through so much.

Welcome to MB. We are sorry that you are here but glad, too--it's a place of healing and support.

I know I've seen others here with spouses with bipolar disorder. It seems to me it generally has been husbands whose wives have it that have posted.

How are you coping with the literal loss? And all the emotional trauma you've been through?

Blessings to you in these difficult days.