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Sure it was wild. I guess I meant in order to go through with it, one would have to do something to at least put aside the fact that they are married.<P>I don’t know. I guess since I know almost NOTHING of went on with my Wife, I guess by asking here I can at least put <I>something</I> in the blanks.
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Just saw this post, haven't visited MB often in the last few days and then only for a few minutes.<P>Thank you Chris for posting this; last night I posted “Questions for BETRAYERS & BETRAYED” but wouldn’t had if I had read yours first. Could you read it and probably share your insights?<P>Alex<P>------------------<BR>Live and learn
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O.k.....I'm no angel! I did enjoy it with OM...really enjoyed it...it was wild, erotic, fun, and made me feel wonderful. I know...more than you wanted/needed to hear! However I wasn't getting any at home and I really wanted some. Actually I was only looking for a one night stand....and now I'm married to it! Only now do I feel guilty...really guilty....really terrible. I have a very hard time looking at myself in a mirror. I've learned too that I have an addiction and need to have a lot of physical contact. I just need to get from one person and he hasn't to be willing to understand that.
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It seems like there are an awful lot of cases here where one spouse was a virgin and the other spouse was the one who had an affair. I wonder if this is just chance.<P>My H is also my one and only. Medic said something about the "virgin bride" thing having been important - is that really common for men to feel that way nowadays? My H seemed disappointed when he found out that I was a virgin, like it was more responsibility than he was prepared to handle.
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yES TO THE QUESTION AND NO TO THE FACT THAT IT WAS MY h THAT HAD THE AFFAIR NOT ME. sADDLY i FOUND OUT IT WAS EXACTLY THAT - PASSION AND SEX ON THE FLOOR. mAKES ME SICK THINKING ABOUT WHAT THEY DID. i FEEL SO UNSEXUAL KNOWING HE FELT HE COULDN'T GET THE PASSION FROM ME.hOPING WHAT WAS SAID BEFORE ,THAT IT'S BETTER TO BE WITH THE ONE YOU LOVE THAN HAVE EMPTY SEX. WASN'T YELLING JUST IN A HURRY AND RELIZED I WAS ON CAPITALS, SO MUCH FOR TYPING SKILLS! tAKE cARE,<BR> BECCA
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