My wife has a daughter from a previous marriage. When she was 13, we moved 80 miles because of my job. She did not want to move away from her friends, so she went to live with her dad. Things were fine after a while and we were all happy. Recently, we had to move to another state about 500 miles away. My wife and her daughter were not happy about this. Once again her daughter stayed with her dad. My wife drives back home almost every weekend to see her. She will not compromise any on going all of the time and thinks I'm unreasonable to ask her not to go so often. I think once amonth is reasonable. Her daughter is 16 now and will be going to college in a couple of years. I think that my wife is throwing away our marriage over the need to go home so often. When she does leave, all I think aout is finding another woman that might make me happy for just one night. I need some advice!!!!

<small>[ November 22, 2002, 11:31 AM: Message edited by: diggerntexas ]</small>

just think what would you do if it was your child?