In my first post I forgot to mention that OW bragged about her sexuality but when she showed up at the hotel she had alot of hang-ups. She didn't want the lights on, she didn't want to take her bra off...and the best one of all, She didn't want to reveal her feet. She wore little booties!!! She wore thigh highs twice and my husband says at least he saw enough of her feet to know she didn't have cloven hooves! So her booties have become a private joke between us. Our old house is cold and winter is coming on where we live. I put on some booties and it kinda makes us laugh...Just something I wanted to tell you about.

Thanks
P.S. Sorry about spelling errors in previous writing.

Sounds like the OW probably got dumped by her H. She obviously didnt want to get too intimate with your H, i.e. was actually embarrassed but needs somthing or sombody, it doesnt matter who just sombody and found your husband.

I could be wrong though.

I know sombody who was cheating on her H looking for more out of a relationship, she never took her shirt off or touched the man in private places or let him touch her.

It's good you can joke about the OW. Atleast you are one of the few BS's that are told and most likly were better in bed then the OW, it makes a world of a differnce knowing that, a WS has no idea what that means to the BS (especially a man).

Hi Bog,
Thanks for your post.Did you read my other longer one that told my story? I am glad that my H didn't think she was all that good in bed. He even had trouble performing which doesn't happen in our bed. I don't know how BW deal with affairs that go on for years and years. I don't think I could. His was brief and he ended it. I'd say that it was a midlife crisis for him. But she was not a younger woman, it turns out she was actually older than him.(I did some snooping)She really flattered him alot and fluffed up his ego.
All which of course has backfired because he now is full of dispair and self loathing.
We have always had really great sex. We made love before,during and after this pathetic affair. He just got greedy and selfish. I guess he found out the hard way that there's nothing better out there. He's kind of shy and has low self esteem and thats what she worked on. Judging from your picture you are alot younger then me,quite pretty too...You and your husband look happy, whats your story? I just figured out how to post things on this site. I'm still having trouble.I guess you can tell I lack computer savvy...but I'm learning.I mostly want to rant on and on about OW I guess that's what I need to do ...gotta go but thanks again for replying to my post I need all the friends I can get now that I'm in this secret society of BW...Happy Thanksgiving tomorrow!

sad-daze