Thanks everyone for putting up with all my crap. Wont be posting anymore.

<small>[ November 27, 2002, 09:57 AM: Message edited by: Bog ]</small>

Hi Bog,

I'm sorry to see you leaving. I've noticed several of your posts and I can tell that you are hurting. I'm sorry for all of the pain that you're feeling right now, and I can definitely understand what you're going through.

I do hope that you and your W will find a good MC. This is a great place to come and vent and to read how others are rebuilding their M, but it doesn't replace the need for MC.

I wish you the best in whatever you decide...

Semper Fi,
RIF90

Bog,your D-day is very recent and the wound in your heart (you do have one, otherwise you would have never come here in the first place) is fresh and has not had a chance to heal. Please consider that decisions made in the heat of the moment tend to come back and bite us in the a**. As proof, I can tell you that I've seen a lot of divorced people come here lamenting their decision to divorce their spouses and wish to have another chance in rebuilding their relationships but it is usually too late since the x-spouse has already moved on with his/her life and is in another relationship. I do not wish you to become one of these folks in the future.

Even though you may snicker but you are luckier than many BH's whose WW's are still involved with their OM's even after D-day. Many of these BH's would trade places with you in a second. But it's your life and your decision to make whether you want to be married or not, and we wish you and your W the best no matter how this turns out.

Peace be with you.

Bog,
Sorry to hear you are leaving. Sorry for the identity mix up and stupid things I said. I just replied to your reply not realizing you were a betrayed H. As I said I am new to all this...I hope my insensitivity wasn't part of your decision. I give myself too much importance don't I? Anyway good luck. The door is always open here.

sad-daze