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Why is it that the betrayed are so afraid or resistant to learning about affairs and what they are involved in?<P>I've tried to pass info on to her but I'm sure it feels like I'm lecturing. I also get "I'm not to that point yet," or "that really doesn't apply to this situation." She feels like her situation/ relationship is unique, while it seems to me to be so "textbook." <P>Any suggestions on how to get our spouse to this site? Maybe should anonymously email this site to them and invite them in. I know, a crazy idea. Until they want to understand they won't seek answers anyway. It's just so frustrating to wait while they keep us in limbo.
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you can lead a horse to water, you cant make them drink.<BR>you can suggest, email the page, etc. she might only resent the interference.<BR>instead be a example, perhaps leave books out that deal with the issues you and her have.<BR>so take caree of you and be there for her.<BR>thats all you can do.<BR>listen to experience. my W came her and only got more upset and hurt when she read my rants.
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