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FD,
all the folks arond here have been offering you their sympathy and so do i however, i would also like to make a practicle suggestion.
GET YOUR @SS TO A LAWYER & DO IT RIGHT NOW!
your wife is pregnant with the OM's baby (by here own addmision) but you know what? in some states this doesn't matter! if you're still married to her when she gives birth then you may end up having financial responsability for this baby!
sorry but you need to be practicle about all this. while we would all like to see your marriage saved in your situation all that comes to my mind is "YUK!" get rid of her!
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<small>[ January 31, 2005, 05:32 PM: Message edited by: hanora ]</small>
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Frankdd,
I too have suffered through infidelity with a same sex affair.
Presently my wife and I are working on our marriage and she has stopped all contact since nov 20/03.
It has been the ride from hell and I am not certain if it will work out for us.
My wife is working very hard on us since she came out of her fog.
There is hope, you need to find out inside of you if you still love her and she has to decide the same.
Please look after yourself and keep posting here.
You are not alone in this unsual affair, I know it happened to me!
My wife went so far as to rent a house before waking up and staying.
She is living in a sea of guilt now and everyday is a struggle for both of us.
Please go see you md and tell him your situation, then go see a therapist to help you live with this.
This is all about your wifes weakness and lack of character, do not blame yourself!
My thoughts are with you and I'll check back here soon.
Bradley
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Bump.......frankdd
I wanted to bump this up as there is another poster besides us two that is going through the same thing.
Please check the in recovery board
Bradleyj
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