Original Post= Husband and Best Friend
Hello all,
OW is contacting my husbands ex-wife and has found our email address through eBay and emailed us.
Someone called my husbands father weeks ago and from 3am to about 7am threatened to kill my husband with an SKS. It didn't take long to put it together that it was her and or her husband who did this horrible thing.
She had already told her H that she had kissed my H and touched him in places that I won't say. You get the picture, I'm sure.
For years they were able to hide the fact that they engage in I guess what is called an open marriage. But kissing according to her husband was too intimate and he was very angry at his wife for what she did.
When D-Day happened we both made it VERY clear to her and her husband that we wanted NOTHING to do with them again EVER. (We were friends for about 14 years)
We changed our home telephone numbers, cell phone numbers and set up a new acct. with our Internet Service Provider so they could not contact us via email.
They are going around all of that and using other means to contact people in our family and us.
We gave them the phone numbers of our family in case of emergency and now they are playing games.
I am FURIOUS to the point that I feel I'm not thinking clearly.
We NEED for them to leave us alone and respect our decision to sever the friendship. That seems to be asking too much from them.
We have thought about calling the police to make a report and our attorney to send them a letter telling them to cease this nonsense. I don't want to make the situation worse because we are very clearly dealing with people who are nuts.
I am sitting here wondering what the heck they hope to gain by their actions. If there was ever a time when I thought I might be able to forgive her, it is long gone now.
If anyone has ever gone through anything close to this please help me by responding to this post. To those who haven't and have anything that I can go on please do the same.
All the very best to you all,
DLynn
<small>[ February 20, 2003, 10:53 AM: Message edited by: DLynn ]</small>