this will be interesting. let's share what we were doing or where we were in our relationship last year and compare it with this year.<P>last year, i was ending my affair because i concluded she was not right for me, eventhough i loved her then and love her now. i sent her the last christmas gift knowing it was the last. i was hanging out with another girl and i spent christmas with my w. the day was ok, our son was home.<BR>this year, we've been together now for about 9 months. i've adjusted pretty well and fit right into the old rut. we have the christmas tree and other decorations up and we're buying gifts. we have a futhure again. she still asks me if i'm happy with her, she's still not sure and i try to reassure her and myself. so, we're back on course but something is missing. i wish i didn't know now what i didn't know before the affair. we'll make it though.<BR>how about the rest of you who care to respond?

This time last year I was home with H and we were preparing to spend our first "married" Christmas together. We did all the cute 1st christmas stuff , ornaments, etc. 1st might be the last