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i have been with her for 4 years we have been thew a lot we have broke up three time to the point that she has moved out but she all ways comes back i cant keep going thew this what should i do we have two kid togeather and they dont need to go thew it this time she has moved out again and says she just dont love me any more she dont want to be tied down she want to do what she wants when she want she is only 23 iam 34 should i just let her go or keep trying we still talk on the phone every day but she gets mad and then just hangs up i went and put a rose in her car and she got mad she said i was stoking her i thought i was be nice i use to do that kind of thing when we first got togeather and she like it

<small>[ February 20, 2003, 06:19 AM: Message edited by: keith123 ]</small>

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I know you love her , but it seems to me that she doesnt anymore , if i were you i better be off without her , she doesnt respect you and eveyone deserve that , hope eveything works out fine with you , you are not alone !!

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You can NOT control what she does. You can not control her reactions to what you do, if she chooses to see kindness and thoughfulness as stalking...then stop!

I know with children that Plan B is not capable of being carried out completely. But, a modified one should be put in place. Let her reap what she is sowing. jmho

good luck!


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