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Today WH left home 8 hours ago to run a few errands and get a haircut. It's the longest unaccountable time he's been gone since DDay 1/02/03 and NC (according to him) 2 mos prior. I am a wreck of course...and even went so far as to check a few places he MIGHT have gone, but not there. HOW do you cope? HOW did you survive? Really don't think i can do this for a long period of time altho i understand that's what i'll need to do.
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Simmy,
I too am having a hard time coping with this situation. My WH is out of the country and has been since D-day. I have to trust that he is not doing anything he should not be, and lets face it......I don't. The best advice I can give you is to go with him when he goes to run errands. Don't let him leave the house alone unless you know exactly where he will be. If nothing else it will give you peace of mind. It may also give you two some time together.
On the other hand....8 hours seems like an awful long time to be gone to gt a haircut and run some errands. Are you sure that he is not still with the OW? I don't know your situation. Could you give me some details?
Try to give him the benfit of the doubt, but stay on your toes. It is a fine line, but you will make it. Stay positive!
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