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is it terribly bad for a H to move out after he's been unfaithful. i feel like we both need some time to regroup. im dealing with issues of forgiveness and although we have begun to talk and we completed the emotional needs questionnaire - he wants to leave for a time and i agree - in your opinion is a separation ok? I had previously asked one of the moderators and she explained it gives him the ability to continue the affair uninterfered - but i figure he did it while living with me anyway - she's in sweden and at this point i really don't want to be with him if he wants to be with her anyway. i just think (at this point) we will both want to eventually save the marriage and i don't want to do anything that would worsen the situation - if that is at all possible.
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I tend to think it's awfully hard to work on a marriage if you're not under the same roof and working on it. However, if you both agree that you need some time apart, can agree to not be involved with anyone else during this time...and it's what you want...then it's your decision to decide what is best for you and your mate.
Good Luck!
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