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Finally decided to leave kids in school where WW and OM work, but told WW I wanted NC - meaning she would have to leave her job. Exploded. Screamed at me at top of lungs.

Found out she went out to OM's place and just sat in car - but I'm pretty sure she knew he wasn't going to be there. But she stayed long enough that I'm thinking that she was hoping he'd show up.

Then she called him later while I was on way home from work.

Should I confront her with this? Or just keep on plan A'ing???

Zaed

<small>[ March 05, 2003, 08:05 AM: Message edited by: Zaed ]</small>

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BOTH! I'm one for always being truthful to my spouse. If I'm not honest, how can I expect him to be honest. You can confront, you do not have to do so in a way which is not in line with Plan A. You don't focus on the negatives, but you don't sweep them under the rug either. jmho

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How would confronting her help? I'm afraid it will just fuel the fire currently burning (idea of her leaving work to implement NC).

Please advise! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Zaed


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