My taker is taking over today. I dont know why, things have been going well for the last week, My WH has been calling me when he goes out, totally accounting for time, which is something new and great. WH works with OW, has not seen her since wednesday, she has been emailing though, WH has been telling me this and what has been said about work situation. (who knows what else is being said) The honesty is great. I want more. I want him to be in love with me again, not just "love me". I want him to have changed jobs already and get away from her. Everything is pointing in the right direction, but moving slow. I know this is a normal reaction, Patience and time. Boy is it hard somedays! Any words of encouragement today would be apprecitated. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

Married 4/88
2 kids 6 & 9
10/02-Dday-WH not happy for 4 years and wants out, we deceide to work on our marriage.
1/03-WH says he is not "connecting" with me, does not know why, I mention possibe EA with co-worker-he seems genuinely surprised and agrees. She then offers her home to my Husband.
2/03-tells OW "not committed" to her, he is staying with his family.