Hello all, I have been silently reading this site and board for a while and I have been really able to cope with what's going on with reading what you guys have said and how you have encouraged others. I finally decided to speak out.

I stepped straight into hell about 4 months ago when I found out my wife was having an affair. (there are a lot of details to the affair but it seems to be just a pattern that all affairs take so I won't bore you with them) I've went through so much and my life has changed so much. We are currently trying to work things out and I have had to change my attitudes and views to a great degree. While it's really hard to trust her I am doing my best. We are entering MC soon and I may have questions for you all to help me out with regards to that.

Just wanted to say thanks to all the wonderful people here helping others through these tough times and it breaks my heart to see what you have all have had to endure, but I am now in the trenches with you and I am holding onto everything I have to pull me through this insane time.

Thanks again to all the good and beautiful people here taking time to help those in need.