Well yesterday my husband and I went through everything in the house , my purse, things in my car, etc....Letters the man I was seeing had given to me, letters from email etc...I gave him full discloser, I let him read the letters I had sent to him as well. It was a very hard day. But I sat down on the couch with him last night and for the first time, recieving affection from him felt good. I could finally look at him in the eyes which is something I have not been able to do for a long time. I know we have a long journey. Last night was really the first time he has broken down and cried, he has kept much bottled up to be strong for me , but he is going good. It was day one with NC from the man I was seeing and that is good. The journey will be long, but I am confident. Would anyone be will to exchange email or IM, there are some things it is hard for me to post here , but would like to talk about.

Itistime, your last post was good news indeed and while you and your H have a long way to go before your M is back on track, it is a small victory that you should be proud of.

There are other FWS(former wayward spouses) who were in your shoes. One of them is Susan, Krissee, Hope4future, Zoey, Princess, etc. You may want to start a thread asking for their help. I am sure they would be delighted to IM or e-mail you. They are women who can relate to where you are now and they can be of enormous help to you.

All the best to you and your H.

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