I suppose the repsonse Iwould receive from the forum group would be a lack of sensativity and a lack of understanding. After all, my wife loves me even after the affair. I lost my job and now I have to explain this huge "gap" in my resume. I was doing so well at this position in McAllen. The hardest part was the missing of my family.

DOES REVENGE "GETTING EVEN" come into mind when a relationship ends so terribly??? I mean, why do people treat eachother so shabably after a relationship ends.

Why was "she" not fired as well from work??? She started another affair with a representative from the temp agency that handles the account for the company. He is married and has kids.

This should not be my problem anymore---but I continue to hurt.

I lost everything!!! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by RANDYRAIL:
<strong>I lost everything!!! <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">You still have your loving wife <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> , you still have your work experience <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> , you still have your family if you want it <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> .

You want revenge ? Why don't your show it to OW that your loving wife is worth more than OW ?. Start learning MB !. The key to in-love is willing to let other to gift you 4 gifts of love. I hope you reprociate to gift 4 gifts of love to make her happy. You should take this incident as a blessing to learn how you could have more love to your wife !. You should take this loss of job as a blessing. I was laidoff last August but happy like a clam, I take this time for myself and for my 2 D .... I only missed school trip once and never missed their competition. I am mr.mom for my 2 D and sometime .... they call me mom by mistake !. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

-rh-