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You win<P>Nuf said<P>Jason
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No, that's NOT enough said.
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nonplused,<P>Khyra is Jason's wife, and they seem to have taken the fight to the boards...<P>Gosh, you two... nobody wants to get in the middle of this... please try to work something out!
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Draw straws? ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) <P>My H and I occasionally bring our whines about each other here too. Great stress reliever. Btw, I finally learned that when my H says I win, what he really means is I've made such an issue about something that he's tired of talking about it and he'd rather me HAVE my way than have to listen to any more! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) I then make sure he gets something HIS way...gotta be fair.
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1) I don't want anyone to get "in the middle" of our argument. <P>2) Lucky describes the situation correctly - there was no agreement made here. He simply gets tired of bickering.<P>I don't usually like to fight, especially w/ my H. But there are times when things get to be too too much and it has to come out. This one I feel has been building for a couple days now. I needed to vent so I posted here. We both read and post here. So, maybe I should post somewhere else instead, I don't know. It hurts to read that he rarely has anything positive to say on here, even if he is affectionate and content seeming here at home with me. I feel like pulling my hair out.<BR>
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Khyra,<P>He is just letting off some steam. Wouldn't your rather he vent here and be pleasant at home? There will be up and downs as you come back together. Trust that! Also trust that you two will make it, IT JUST TAKES TIME and a lot of love and honesty .<P>You two keep posting here.<P><BR>God Bless Both of You<P>JL<P>
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I agree with JL!! Nobody leave!!<P>I did exactly what you did Khyra, and was called on the carpet for it... <P>My H and I have both posted, and unless I had something constructive and kind to say, I didn't post on his threads, because it colored the way others would post. He needed to feel safe in sharing his feelings without me in his face (thread)... that's all I meant... honest. I never, ever want anyone to feel unwelcome ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/frown.gif) <P>Please do not stop posting, either of you!<BR><P>------------------<BR>Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans.<P>~John Lennon
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>But there are times when things get to be too too much and it has to come out. This one I feel has been building for a couple days now.<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>Can you say, "Love Buster?" I knew ya' could.<P>Stop, take a deep breath and let it oput slow. Now TALK with each other about what was said/posted. Both of you have feelings and both of you have to acknowledge the others are very real. Thoughts are only thoughts. You're both still around each other so you can at least talk. Count your blessings<P>------------------<BR>Prayers & God Bless!<BR>Chris<BR>For relationship info check out <A HREF="http://www.pcisys.net/~chriscal1/resources.html" TARGET=_blank>Marriage & Relationship Resources</A>
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Up to the top so that Khyra and Jason know they are WELCOME here!<P>~Sheryl<P>------------------<BR>Life is what happens to you while you are busy making other plans.<P>~John Lennon
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