I put my wedding ring back on. After reading Medic's thread (he put his ring back on and Val noticed and COMMENTED on it , too!)...I wondered if I should also do this??<P>Steve Harley has me back in PlanA. So, I wonder if that means I should be wearing my ring, again????<P>I went and put it back on and I gotta tell you...it feels right! But, on the other hand, I do not want to give my H the idea I am presuming anything or have "expectations" because of our Monday night date.<P>What do ya think????<P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR><p>[This message has been edited by Roll Me Away (edited December 16, 1999).]

You're married... right...<BR>Leave it on... <P>Jim

I agree. You're married, it feels right, leave it on!

If it feels right, then go for it!!<P>------------------<BR>Viki<P>

Hi RMA -<P>Haven't been around as much as usual - <BR>but have been following....<P>First of all, Congrats on the way your <BR>"date" went - sounds very good!!!<P>Secondly, I vote for keeping the ring <BR>on.....you are married and have come <BR>past your anger and despair to a point where you can see things more clearly....that is the explanation for H - should he comment!!<P>HUGS,<P>Sheba

You said it yourself, "it feels right"...<P>~Sheryl<BR>

Why not ask your husband? I tried something like that once and it really made my (now ex) mad.

Hey Twin, Can you believe it? I just sent you an email about wearing my ring if I meet with H. Great mind run together!!!!<P>------------------<BR>di<P>

Jim,<P>Yes, feels REALLY good. How are you doing???? What's going on with your job?<P>sidney and Viki,<P>Thanks for the replies - it is n and does feel good!<P>Sheba,<P>Thanks for keeping up with my story. Also, that was a good idea about what to say if he does notice. Thanks!<P>Sheryl,<P>Yes, most often than not...we answer our own questions, don't we! Resting any?<P>nonplused,<P>Now, I am wondering if I should say something next time we see each other or not??? I think I know what his answer will be - Do what you think is right for you. I just don't want to send the wrong message that since we had this one date, I am expecting everything to just pop into place, etc. My H is stubborn and wants to do things on HIS terms. I wouldn't want this to be misinteroreted as manipulation on my part. I will think about your suggestion...<P>Roll Me Away<BR><P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

Hey - I've never taken mine off. If it feels right, then keep wearing them.<P>Lori

Lori, <P>I guess it feels right because it feels right and also because it goes along with PlanA that Steve Harley told me to go back to.<P>To all..........<P>I will be leaving tomorrow morning to go to Louisiana to spend Christmas with my Dad and other family. I won't be back until Tuesday night. I am planning on taking my laptop, but with the funeral on tomorrow (my uncle died), family Christmas all day Saturday, driving 2 1/2 hrs. to meet my best friend on Sunday, visiting with sister and family on Monday and driving 9 hrs back here on Tuesday,I may not have a lot of time to get on-line. Also, I never tried to get on-line from another phone dialup outside of work and home. But, I will try to stay in touch. <P>If not able to...I'll be back mid-week next week.<P>Roll Me Away <BR><P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>

RMA,<P>WEAR IT!!!<P>Mine is in our God box. Actualy it's a pitcher. When the Lord tells us it's time we will wear them with more pride than before.<P>Hopefully sooner than later.<P><BR>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>