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Last Wednesday my husband finally admitted after months of denying it, he had oral sex with the OW (one night stand). When I found out that was one of the first questions I asked as oral sex is very intimate to me. It is something that I only did with my husband.<P>Now I found out he did it with her like it was nothing. This means more to me like his having sex with her. He knew that it meant something to me that he had to lie about it for 3 months.<P>Now I can't be with him like that.
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It is hard when u keep thinking about what he did with her. You feel like the OP is in the same bed with you. Wondering is he thinking of her, does he think she is better, etc. etc. I know you hate hearing this, but you just have to give it time. And if he doesn't understand...TOO BAD....don't do anything you don't feel comfortable with sexually.
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I'm sorry for your pain, I hope that's all he did. My H said for months he had never laid a hand on the ow, but slowly did the truth come out, it was more.....alot more. Anyway my advice is keep your gaurd up, for your sake I hope he is finally telling the truth.
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