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Trying to reconcile-He says he doesn't want to give up OW weekly lawn cutting!!!!
#426178 04/05/03 09:34 AM
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He says he does 3 together, easy money. I say he has to give them all up. He said he has the one acct. about 10 yrs. I said. I wish you were as devoted to me, wife of 34 yrs. as to your customer of 10 yrs. To me, all must go, because she is in seeing and walking distance of my husband. He said there was a car there the other day and my husband asked who's car that was, the neighbor said her boyfriends. To me, my husband should not have been interested in that car either, if he is saying it is over. Opinions, please. I will approach him with all comments.. He said I am DEMANDING this of him...I say its to reconcile and must be done.
Re: Trying to reconcile-He says he doesn't want to give up OW weekly lawn cutting!!!!
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lefty,

Learn about LB ... you are right calling his integrity. However you have to be carefull how you say it .... no angry outburst, no disrespctful judgement and no unresonable demand. State what you want w/o LB and demand it from him. If he argue about it ... just let him know that you would not do it but what if you call your old boy freind and drive around his house or cleaning his house <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> , would it be ok for him ?.

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