Putting this matter to rest and getting on with our lives ... hopefully to a better one than we had in the past.

<small>[ July 09, 2003, 10:13 PM: Message edited by: southofdixie321 ]</small>

You're not going to find anyone here who ever thinks it's alright for ex-affair partners to continue working together. While there is a need to continue making a living, there should be extreem effort to find another position as quickly as possible.

It's almost impossible for the BS to began any true healing as long as there is contact between the ex-affair partners. NC is almost a "rule" in recovery. So...we're all going to agree with your family doctor!!!!

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">He said that as soon as he was able to see and talk with his boss,... </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">If he hasn't had a chance in three weeks time....there is something wrong. He should have already discussed this with his bosses by now! JMHO

He needs to be looking for a new position. JMHO

I do commend him for being honest and telling you instead of you're having to find out on your own. This shows a large measure of respect for you and his feelings of safety with you. That is a very large plus!

Good Luck!