...I know that I'm not "truly" in the correct room, but I need some support and advise. I guess after all of my efforts of trying to put my marriage back together and having absolutely no success, I'm ready to pack it in. My husband and I were speaking on rather good terms..he was becoming more involved in our lives again. While away on business, he began exhibiting the signs of his "old self". However, on Thursday of last week, he reverted back to the WS again...finding fault with me NOT arguing with him...(he said at least when we argued, I knew there was some emotional feeling there)...arghhhh!!! Anyway, we continued to talk, even went out a few times. Now, I learn that he is more involved than ever. Is this definitely Plan B time? Please, I need advise...of all of the teetering back and forth and my strings being pulled, I need to take a stance. I'm more afraid because I believe he will never come back. I am seeking counseling and I do feel better afterward, but in between sessions, I'm crushed. Help!

Yes, it's time for Plan B. Even more so if you are getting discouraged and feeling hopeless, but certainly if he is running back and forth between her and you.

I posted the Plan B guidelines and some other info for you on your other thread.

C