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I only have been in awareness of the A for 14 days. My H is 100% positively trying to move forward and make our marriage work. I just don't seem to be able to get past the hurt. Mostly though its I am so scared to move forward in case I end up right back here again. Especially since last summer is when the issues first came up. Then they were only phone calls. Now the issue is much more. How many chances do you take?? Can anyone give me help or insight to how to move forward??

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Welcome to MB,

Read the concepts section, get with a good MC or call STeve or Jennifer here at MB.

Find the book surviving an affair and his needs/her needs by Dr Phil Harley.

Both take the emotional needs questionnaire and realize that if your H is truly remorseful, you have made good steps toward recovery more than most. Be grateful if that is true.

Post back.

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I thought my first reply to you in your other post was pretty clear. What are you unsure/unclear about?


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