I had posted my situation. Husband has been talking to internet women about sex. I say it's cheating, he says I shouldn't be snooping. He swore to me he had stopped this morning when I asked. He said everything was fine and he hadn't been talking to internet women. Then I presented him with the printout of my keylogger that showed the disgusting comments he made to strange women before he came upstairs to have sex with me. He flat out lied. What do I do? Do I boot his [censored] or try to work this out? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

Well maryo, in my opinion, it just depends on how you fell about it. I mean it might not be "cheating cheating" but at the least it is an emotional affair. Also, you have to think to yourself, he lied to you about it once already, do you think he will lie again? Lastly, if he was talking to these women before you had sex, does he have to do this to get turned on to have sex. You have to make the choice whether you want to continue on or kick him to the curb. Good luck to you.

i did the same thing to my wife, using women on the internet chat rooms and reading pornograhpy, i was busted, told her i stopped cold turkey, no way, it didnt work, sex is so powerful, it wont let ur husband go, satan will use that computor to keep ur man caged in, the sad part is, if u take the keyboard to work with u, he may go and purchase magazines, use phone sex to keep his desires fed, he needs to meet a counselor for help, hes addicted like i was and i still struggle with it, hes replaced Gods way of liveing with his own sexual desires that give him a good sense of satisfaction, only in time he wont want any sex with u, since he wont have any need for u, since his fantasy world is pleasing him, no matter how u dress urself to look good for him , u cant compare to his fantasy women, hes in control of the fantasy and its a great feeling for a man to have control in the sex , u need to confront him about it, it will make him mad, but u will lose him anyway if u dont make a firm stand. take it from me, im still suffering with the temptation, may God give u guidance