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#427801 04/25/03 11:38 AM
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Please help! I have known about the A for about 4 weeks now and we are trying to work things out. The part of plan A that won't work is that his lover is now 5 1/2 months pregnant by him. He has a responsibility to help. She also lives in another state. What to do; what to do?

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Sorry to hear about the pregnancy. That adds an extra wrinkle when trying to regain your relationship after an affair. There is a board for those of us in that situation. You might post there, the OW/OC forum. There are a lot of people who have dealt with that situation.
I have also dealt with that. However I learned of the child a year after we had worked on our relationship and had our own child, our 5th child.
You can read my post on the OW/OC forum.
Again, post there, you will find all kinds of advice, you will need to sift thru it and find what works for you. But just about all who post there have been where you are and are going.
Good luck,
Texasgirl


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